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Navigating Mental Health Challenges for LGBTQ+ Individuals in Politically Hostile Times

Practical Strategies to Help You Weather the Storm


The Politics of Being LGBTQ+

In recent years, the intersection of LGBTQ+ mental health and socially conservative political movements has grown increasingly concerning. As the 2024 Presidential election drew to a close, many in the queer community settled into very understandable fear and anxiety about a second Trump Administration, especially given the long list of anti-LGBTQ+ executive orders and policy changes that occurred during his first term. From the anticipation of similar roll backs of protections to current attacks on the dignity of queer people, hostile politics create an environment that fuels fear, anxiety, and discrimination.

For LGBTQ+ individuals, particularly those living in conservative regions or facing family rejection, this landscape can feel overwhelming. However, there are strategies to build resilience, protect mental health, and thrive despite these challenges. Let’s explore the impacts of these political movements and offer actionable advice to foster hope and strength.

The Mental Health Impact of Political Hostility

Chronic Stress and Its Toll

Political hostility toward LGBTQ+ people often manifests in discriminatory laws, policies, and public discourse. The steady stream of anti-LGBTQ+ narratives can lead to chronic stress, which is linked to a range of mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). For many, the fear of losing rights or becoming a target of violence adds a layer of insecurity that compounds everyday stressors.

Social Isolation

Hostile rhetoric can embolden individuals or groups to discriminate openly, making some LGBTQ+ individuals feel unsafe in their communities. This can result in social withdrawal or a reluctance to engage with others, further isolating them and impacting their emotional well-being.

Intersectional Vulnerabilities

For LGBTQ+ individuals who are also part of other marginalized groups—such as people of color, immigrants, or those with disabilities—the impacts of political hostility are often magnified. These intersecting oppressions create unique challenges, exacerbating the need for tailored mental health strategies.

Building Resilience in Adverse Times

Though political adversity can feel disempowering, there are ways to navigate these challenges while preserving and strengthening mental health. Building resilience requires a combination of internal and external strategies, as well as a supportive community.

1. Recognize and Validate Your Feelings

It’s normal to feel angry, sad, or scared in the face of discrimination and hostility. Suppressing these emotions can worsen mental health challenges, so take time to acknowledge and validate your feelings. Journaling, talking to trusted friends, or seeking therapy can provide safe spaces to process these emotions.

2. Stay Connected to Affirming Communities

Isolation is a common reaction to adversity, but staying connected to affirming communities is vital. Seek out LGBTQ+ support groups, either locally or online, where you can share experiences and find encouragement. Platforms like LGBTQ+ centers, community forums, and advocacy organizations offer spaces to feel seen and understood.

3. Set Boundaries with News and Social Media

Constant exposure to political news and hostile rhetoric can take a toll on your mental health. Consider setting boundaries around media consumption by limiting your time on social platforms or filtering your news intake to trusted sources. Remember, staying informed doesn’t mean overwhelming yourself with every development.

4. Engage in Advocacy

Advocacy can be a powerful way to combat feelings of helplessness. Joining movements that fight for LGBTQ+ rights allows you to channel frustration into action and connect with others who share your values. Whether it’s attending a rally, signing petitions, or volunteering with local organizations, advocacy offers a sense of agency and hope.

5. Prioritize Self-Care

Self-care is not indulgent—it’s essential. Practices such as mindfulness meditation, regular exercise, healthy eating, and adequate sleep can improve your emotional resilience. Incorporate activities that bring you joy and calm, whether that’s creative expression, spending time in nature, or engaging in hobbies.

6. Seek Professional Support

Therapy is a valuable tool for navigating mental health challenges, especially during politically turbulent times. Look for therapists who are LGBTQ+ affirming and understand the unique challenges of living in a politically hostile environment. Many organizations offer sliding-scale fees or virtual therapy options to improve accessibility.

7. Build a Personal Support System

Cultivate relationships with people who respect and support you. Whether it’s chosen family, friends, or mentors, a strong support system can act as a buffer against external negativity. Lean on these relationships during tough times and be sure to nurture them in return.

Reclaiming Your Power

While the challenges posed by socially conservative political movements are significant, it’s essential to remember that resilience is a process, not a fixed trait. The LGBTQ+ community has a long history of resistance, activism, and joy, even in the face of adversity. Drawing on this legacy can provide strength and perspective.

The Importance of Hope

During dark times, it’s easy to feel as though progress is slipping away. But history reminds us that social change is not linear; it’s a journey with setbacks and triumphs. Progress often begins with grassroots efforts, and every voice raised against injustice contributes to a broader movement toward equality.

Looking Toward the Future

Political climates can shift, and hostile rhetoric doesn’t erase the growing acceptance and love within many communities. Building resilience is not just about surviving adversity—it’s about positioning yourself to thrive when the tides turn.

Final Thoughts

LGBTQ+ mental health is deeply intertwined with the political and social environments in which individuals live. While the challenges presented by socially conservative movements like the one led by Donald Trump are real and deeply felt, resilience is achievable. By leaning on community, setting boundaries, and practicing self-care, LGBTQ+ individuals can protect their mental health and continue to fight for a more inclusive future.

Ultimately, resilience is not just an act of survival; it is a radical form of defiance in a world that seeks to undermine dignity and rights. Together, with support, compassion, and courage, the LGBTQ+ community can rise above political adversity and continue to shape a world where everyone is free to live authentically.prevail. Let us continue to stand together, advocate for change, and ensure that every individual has the opportunity to live authentically and thrive.

If you live in Washington State, and you would like to make an appointment, please feel free to contact me here. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

:), Susan Reimers, JD/LICSW

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Coping with Climate Anxiety: DBT Techniques for a Better Future

What Dialectical Behavioral Therapy Can Teach Us About Coping With an Uncertain Future

What is DBT?

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is an effective, evidence-based therapeutic tool that teaches practical skills in the areas of Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotional Regulation and Distress Tolerance. It is considered an important tool in the treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder and a host of other mental health conditions. As it happens, it’s also a good tool for combating the very real and very understandable issue of Climate Anxiety.

How Can DBT Help with Coping?

At the most basic level, DBT posits that any problem can be solved in four distinct ways. Reading through the list below, you’ll notice there are three active solutions, and one that requires no action at all:

  1. You can actually SOLVE the problem.
  2. You can FEEL BETTER about the problem.
  3. You can ACCEPT/TOLERATE the problem.
  4. You can DO NOTHING and stay miserable.

But what do these options mean exactly? Let’s take a moment to explore them one by one.

SOLVING Climate Change

Solving a problem is always the best solution, yet, it’s not always a realistic option. When it comes to climate change, no one person on the planet has the ability to completely resolve the issue of greenhouse gas emissions. That said, each of us has the ability to do what we can. This might mean living small, cutting back on beef consumption, living in a walkable/bikeable neighborhood, buying an electric vehicle next time you’re in the market for a car, cutting back on plane trips, or any number of other things. In addition, you have the option of voting for leaders who care about climate change, supporting the work of climate activists and communicators, or creating innovative ideas, products and services. You may not be able to end the global crisis, but you can solve the smaller issue of your personal contribution

It’s true, you’re only one person. The change you make is a tiny drop in a very large bucket. It’s also true that climate change cannot be solved without your contribution. That bucket needs every drip. A jigsaw puzzle remains unfinished without every single piece. When many people acknowledge their carbon footprint and make necessary adjustments, the aggregate effect is very significant. In fact, it’s the only path to a complete solution.

Don’t get caught in the bystander effect! Don’t assume someone else will solve the problem! Be the change you want to see!

FEELING BETTER about Climate Change

While it’s very understandable to harbor deep-seated concerns about the planet we live on, it is also easy to catastrophize and engage in mental-filtering or all-or-nothing thinking. When we concentrate on our failures, it’s easy to lose sight of hopeful developments and the significant progress we’ve already made. Clean energy production has become 99% cheaper to build and implement than old-fashioned coal-burning power plants. A global solar power boom is underway, changing the way human kind generates energy, heats water, and fuels their vehicles. Speaking of electrified transportation, EV sales are growing year after year. And while there has been negative press regarding the ethical and environmental costs of mining vital battery components, or the strain EVs will put on our current power grid, these problems can (and will) be solved. Oil, coal and gas production is rife with its own ethical and environmental costs, and our current fossil fuel infrastructure didn’t leap into existence overnight. We’re moving in the right direction, but change takes time.

When you find yourself falling into a pit of despair, start asking questions. “Are my thoughts balanced? Are they evidence-based?” Put your thoughts on trial. Fact check. It won’t hurt, and it just might help relieve some anxiety!

In addition, you might try “reframing”. For example, when you think about problems that exist on a global scale, they can seem utterly hopeless and overwhelming. This is because your frame might be too big. Global problems require global solutions, and last time I checked, no one person has that much power. Try a smaller frame. Focus on your personal realm of influence. At the national level, you can help select leadership, you can make consumer choices, and support non-profits and activism. You’ll have even more influence at the regional and local levels, where your unique voice is more likely to stand out. You have still more power in your home, family, and close-knit communities. You have a choice. Use a frame that feels hopeful and empowering!

ACCEPTING or TOLERATING Climate Change

Learning to tolerate the distress of a bad situation is not as ideal as solving the problem, or even feeling batter about it. That said, it can be a way to find relief from intense emotions. DBT offers an entire suite of Distress Tolerance Skills ranging from those designed for crisis experiences to practical, everyday strategies for tolerating mild distress. Here are a few examples:

The TIPP Skill (Temperature, Intense exercise, Paired muscle relaxation, Paced breathing) offers quick and effective ways to calm your body when anxiety runs high.

The ACCEPTS Skill (Activities, Contributions, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts and Sensations), on the other hand, offers practical methods to lower our distress on a day to day basis.

One important distress tolerance skill is Radical Acceptance. Often, we add an additional layer of distress/anxiety when we struggle to accept certain unpleasant realities. While the stressor (climate change) is painful enough all on its own, we can amplify that distress by believing that things “should” be different. Just as a person who has lost their life savings might struggle to accept their new circumstances- holding on to outdated notions of what resources they used to have- doing so may prevent that person from embracing life as it currently is. Accepting the fact that climate change is happening, that you cannot solve it alone, and that human beings are a complicated and frustrating lot can help you end your fight against reality. That doesn’t mean you suddenly feel like everything’s fine. Nor does it mean sacrificing your values.

That person who lost their life savings might begin to improve their financial health through budgeting, saving and investment, If they practice radical acceptance along the way, they can do so without the added distress of feeling or believing that life should be anything other than what it is. Settling that fight against reality leaves room for the present, for joy, and for undistracted time with our loved ones. How would radical acceptance improve your life? What kind of difference could it make?

DOING NOTHING and STAYING MISERABLE

This last “solution” is really just the status quo, isn’t it? Doing nothing really is an option. You’re reading this post because you are anxious about the present and future of our climate. Your anxiety is so significant that you’re looking for tools and perspectives to help. If you do nothing at all, you can remain in that distress. That’s a choice you have. Problem is, it’s not a solution. Not really. It won’t help you solve the problem (or contribute to mitigation. Doing nothing won’t help you feel better. It won’t even help you deal with your distress. It only helps maintain the status quo (your very understandable climate anxiety).

So, rather than doing nothing, what’s the harm in dabbling in the above three strategies?

MORE RESOURCES

If you’d like to learn more about Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, there are a number of searchable sites online (Google, Psychology Today and YouTube are good sources). Focus on the four major skill areas: Mindfulness, Emotional Regulation, Distress Tolerance, and Interpersonal Effectiveness.

If you’d like to make a therapy appointment, and you live in Washington State, you can do so by visiting my Psychology Today page and contacting me directly. I offer TeleHealth services statewide.

:), Susan Reimers, JD/LICSW

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Being Trans is Not a Mental Illness

Written and Published by Steven Novella under Culture and Society,Neuroscience Reprinted With Author’s Permission

On the current episode of the SGU (Skeptic’s Guide to the Universe podcast), because it is pride month, we expressed our general support for the LGBTQ community. I also opined about how important it is to respect individual liberty, the freedom to simply live your authentic life as you choose, and how ironic it is that often the people screaming the loudest about liberty seem the most willing to take it away from others. That was it – we didn’t get into any specific issues. And yet this discussion provoked several responses, filled with strawman accusations about things we never said, and weighed down with a typical list of tropes and canards. It would take many articles to address them all, so I will focus on just one here. One e-mailer claimed: “It is obvious to me that the 98% of trans people have a mental illness that should be treated like any other mental illnesses.”

Being trans itself is not considered a mental illness, but this deserves some extensive discussion. It’s important to first establish some basic principles, starting with – what is mental illness? This is a deceptively tricky question. The American Psychiatric Association provides this definition:

Mental illnesses are health conditions involving changes in emotion, thinking or behavior (or a combination of these). Mental illnesses can be associated with distress and/or problems functioning in social, work or family activities.

But this is not a technical or operational definition (something that requires book-length exploration to be thorough), but rather a quick summary for lay readers. In fact, there is no one generally accepted technical definition. There is some heterogeneity throughout the scientific literature, and it may vary from one illness to another and one institution to another. But there are some generally accepted key elements.

First, as the WHO states, “Mental disorders involve significant disturbances in thinking, emotional regulation, or behaviour.” But then we have to define “disorder”, which is typically defined as a lack or alternation in a function possessed by most healthy individuals that causes demonstrable harm. “Significant” is also a word that’s doing a lot of heavy lifting there. This is typically determined disorder by disorder, but usually includes elements of persistent duration for greater than some threshold, and some pragmatic measure of severity. For example, does the disorder prevent someone from participating in meaningful activity, productive work, or activities of daily living? Does it provoke other demonstrable harms, such as severe depression or anxiety? Does it entail increased risk of negative health or life outcomes?

Further, symptoms and outcomes need to be put into cultural context. Specifically, it has been increasingly recognized that negative outcomes do not qualify as mental illness if they are entirely due to outside factors, such as social norms and acceptance. If you are a rugged individualist living in a collectivist society, your individualism is not a mental illness simply because it puts you in conflict with the dominant cultural norm. In other words, mental illness must be a product of inherent brain function (although this can be in response to extreme stress or environmental conditions, such as PTSD), and not simply culture.

As psychiatry evolved and matured, and wrestled with many complex issues, it also became clear that a diagnosis of mental illness should not be used simply to enforce cultural norms, or as a value judgement to be imposed on individuals. Along those same lines, it has become increasingly recognized within biology, medicine, and neuroscience specifically that living things, including people, exhibit a lot of variation within very broad parameters that can be considered healthy. Also, evolution typically involves lots of trade-offs, and different trade-offs are often just different, not better or worse. This is why we no longer used value-laden terms like “normal”,  “abnormal”, or “deviant”. Rather, it is more appropriate to use value-neutral terms such as typical and atypical. Not everyone who is atypical is abnormal or suffering from a disorder.

Grappling with these complex issues is extremely important, because they get right to the heart of the liberty question. Historically the designation of mental illness has been used as a tool of authoritarian governments to deprive citizens of liberty. Not cooperating with a collectivist ideology was considered a mental illness, and “treated” by confinement in reeducation camps. Anti-psychiatry organizations, like Scientologists, take this principle to an extreme, and deny the very existence of mental illness and portray all mental health treatment as political oppression. This is the other end of the spectrum, equally nonsense. An optimal approach is somewhere in the middle – recognizing the many abuses and pitfalls of giving someone a diagnosis of mental illness, the tremendous power this can give someone over someone else’s liberty, but retaining the ability to recognize genuine problems in order to give proper help to those who need it.

With this as background, let’s consider an historically relevant case – is homosexuality a mental illness? In the first DSM published in 1952, the manual of psychiatric diagnoses, it was considered a mental illness. This was based upon one competing theory of homosexuality that pathologized it. For example, psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Edmund Bergler wrote in a book for general audiences:

“I have no bias against homosexuals; for me they are sick people requiring medical help… Still, though I have no bias, I would say: Homosexuals are essentially disagreeable people, regardless of their pleasant or unpleasant outward manner… [their] shell is a mixture of superciliousness, fake aggression, and whimpering. Like all psychic masochists, they are subservient when confronted with a stronger person, merciless when in power, unscrupulous about trampling on a weaker person.”

This was closely tied to cultural normative value judgements, that anyone who did not conform to social norms around sexual behavior were “deviant”. In the second edition published in 1973, the competing theory that homosexuality was simply part of human variation prevailed, and homosexuality was removed as a mental illness. This was also based on an analysis following the principles I outlined above. Being homosexual does not seem to correlate with any pathology, mental deficiency, or inability to function – except to the degree that is being imposed from the outside by society. It is not a reaction to stress, bad parenting, or social contagion. People seem to be born gay, because that is how their brains developed, and it’s just part of variation that we see pretty much across the entire animal kingdom.

When it comes to individuals who identify as trans or non-binary, we see essentially the same story playing out. Accusations that being trans is a mental illness is being used to justify taking away their liberty, marginalizing them in society, and even depriving them of health care. But there is equally little reason to consider a trans identity a mental illness as being non-heterosexual. It is true that trans individual do have a higher risk of depression, anxiety, and suicidality. But again, this seems to result from acceptance in society, rather than an internal factor.

With respect to the DSM, the same evolution has occurred. The original designation was “gender identity disorder”, but after debate and review it was considered that this was just as much a bias as considering homosexuality deviant. The GID designation was removed, and replaced with “gender incongruence” as a descriptor under the sexual health section (The DSM also lists traits, personality types, and other things which are not considered disorders or illnesses). There is also a separate diagnosis of “gender dysphoria” which is a negative emotion that can (but does not always) arise from gender incongruence. For context it’s important to recognize that part of the purpose of the DSM is to give a label to anyone who might be seeking help, so that they can be treated and insurance can be billed. That’s why there are many conditions that are not considered a mental illness. For example, someone might seek mental health treatment because they are suffering from reactionary grief following the loss of a loved one. This is considered a healthy reaction to a life event, not a mental illness, but they still may benefit from intervention.

Critically, the consensus among mental health experts is that the trans identity itself is not a manifestation of some mental illness, but is simply part of the natural variation of a complex biological system. Some people are trans or non-binary. This may result in increased mental stress, but that is generally a societal issue, not an issue of brain health.

To be clear, and to head-off the likely strawmen arguments thrown my way, there is a meaningful discussion to be had about how to optimize health care for trans people, to balance concerns about outcome, risks vs benefits, maturity, and consent. But such a conversation should be had among experts, and free of misinformation, biases, bigotry, outdated notions of deviance, or the imposition of external cultural norms (no matter how well entrenched and firmly held they are).

Dismissing trans individuals as “98%” mentally ill is just misinformed bias, and a way to deprive a marginalized community of their humanity, dignity, rights, and liberty.

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THERAPIST’S NOTE: I asked Dr. Novella for permission to reprint this article because it so thoroughly and effectively represents the views of myself and the staff at Transcendent Mental Health.If you live in Washington State, and you would like to make an appointment, please feel free to contact me here. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

:), Susan Reimers, JD/LICSW