December 2024 – TRANSCENDENT MENTAL HEALTH

Tips for Coping with a Case of the Winter Blues

As the vibrant colors of autumn fade into muted shades of gray and white, winter begins to assert itself, typically starting in late December and extending through late March. For those in the northern parts of the country, this season brings its unique challenges. The days grow alarmingly short, with the sun rising late and setting as early as mid-afternoon. Cold temperatures and icy conditions make outdoor activities less inviting, while snow-covered landscapes, though beautiful, can feel isolating. These seasonal changes often lead to a phenomenon many refer to as the “winter blues.”

The winter blues, also known as seasonal affective disorder (SAD) in its more severe forms, can leave you feeling lethargic, unmotivated, and even depressed. This is a widespread issue, with millions experiencing a dip in their mental health during these colder months. But understanding why this happens and exploring ways to counteract it can make winter a more manageable, even enjoyable, time of year.

Why Does Winter Impact Our Mood?

The primary culprit behind the winter blues is the lack of sunlight. Sunlight plays a crucial role in regulating our circadian rhythms, the internal clock that governs our sleep-wake cycle. Reduced exposure to daylight can disrupt this rhythm, leading to fatigue and difficulty concentrating. Additionally, limited sunlight can decrease serotonin levels—a neurotransmitter that contributes to feelings of well-being—and increase melatonin production, which can make us feel sleepy and sluggish.

Another contributing factor is the limited opportunity for outdoor activities and social connection. In warmer months, it’s easier to meet friends for a walk, enjoy a picnic, or take part in community events. But when temperatures plummet and sidewalks are slick with ice, many people opt to stay indoors, leading to feelings of isolation. The festive holiday season, while joyful for some, can exacerbate feelings of loneliness for others, especially once the celebrations are over and January’s stark reality sets in.

Fighting Back: Strategies to Beat the Winter Blues

Although winter’s challenges are real, there are numerous strategies you can employ to lift your spirits and maintain your mental health during the colder months. Here are some effective ways to combat the winter blues:

1. Maximize Sunlight Exposure

Whenever possible, try to get outside during daylight hours. Even a short walk during your lunch break can make a difference. If natural light is scarce, consider investing in a light therapy box. These devices mimic natural sunlight and can help regulate your circadian rhythms, boost serotonin levels, and improve your mood. Place the light box on your desk or dining table and use it for about 20-30 minutes each morning for optimal results.

2. Stay Active

Exercise is a powerful mood booster. While outdoor activities may be less accessible, there are plenty of ways to stay active indoors. Join a gym, try yoga or Pilates at home, or explore online workout classes. If you’re an outdoor enthusiast, consider winter-friendly activities like snowshoeing, cross-country skiing, or even brisk walks on clearer days. Physical activity releases endorphins, which are natural stress relievers and mood enhancers.

3. Prioritize Social Connections

Combat isolation by staying connected with friends and family. Schedule regular phone calls, video chats, or socially distanced meetups. If it’s safe and feasible, host small gatherings or join virtual communities and groups that share your interests. Social interaction is a cornerstone of mental well-being, and making an effort to connect can help you feel less alone.

4. Maintain a Healthy Routine

Establishing a consistent daily routine can provide structure and a sense of normalcy during the darker months. Aim to wake up and go to bed at the same time every day to support your circadian rhythm. Eat a balanced diet rich in whole foods, including fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains. Foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids, like salmon and walnuts, as well as those high in vitamin D, can be particularly beneficial.

5. Practice Mindfulness and Gratitude

Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation and deep breathing, can help reduce stress and improve your overall mental state. Take a few minutes each day to sit quietly and focus on your breath or practice guided meditations. Gratitude journaling is another effective tool; write down three things you’re thankful for each day to shift your perspective and cultivate positivity.

6. Seek Professional Help if Needed

If your feelings of sadness or lethargy persist and interfere with your daily life, don’t hesitate to seek help from a mental health professional. Therapy, medication, or a combination of both can be highly effective for managing seasonal affective disorder. Remember, asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Embracing the Season

While winter may not be everyone’s favorite season, finding ways to embrace its unique offerings can make a significant difference. Cozy up with a good book by the fire, explore new indoor hobbies like painting or baking, or take time to reflect and plan for the year ahead. Viewing winter as an opportunity for rest and rejuvenation, rather than a burden, can shift your mindset and help you make the most of this quieter season.

Winter’s challenges are undeniable, but with intentional effort and a proactive approach, it’s possible to not just survive but thrive during these colder, darker months. By staying active, connected, and mindful, you can keep the winter blues at bay and emerge into spring feeling strong and refreshed.

If you live in Washington State, and you would like to make an appointment, please feel free to contact me here. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

:), Susan Reimers, JD/LICSW

Resetting Our Mental Health with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

As the New Year dawns, many of us find ourselves reflecting on the past and looking ahead with hope. It’s a natural time for self-assessment, but instead of setting traditional resolutions—which often focus on fixing perceived flaws—the New Year offers a unique opportunity to recommit to values-driven actions that nurture our mental well-being. From an Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) perspective, this is not about striving for perfection or erasing difficulties. Instead, it’s about cultivating a meaningful life through acceptance, mindfulness, and purposeful commitments.

The Pitfall of Traditional Resolutions

Traditional New Year’s resolutions often aim for significant changes: losing weight, quitting a habit, or achieving a milestone. While these goals are well-intentioned, they often stem from a place of self-criticism or societal pressure. This approach can inadvertently set us up for feelings of failure if we don’t meet rigid expectations. Moreover, resolutions tend to focus on outcomes, which we can’t always control, rather than on processes that align with our core values.

ACT encourages us to step away from this cycle. Rather than framing the New Year as a time to fix ourselves, we can see it as an invitation to reconnect with what truly matters and to act in ways that honor our values, even when challenges arise. This shift in perspective can help reduce the burden of self-judgment and open the door to greater psychological flexibility.

Reflecting on Your Values

Values are the heart of ACT. They represent what is deeply important to us, guiding how we want to behave and what kind of person we want to be. Unlike goals, values are not something to achieve but rather qualities we bring to our actions. For example, if you value kindness, your commitment might involve being compassionate toward yourself and others, regardless of external outcomes.

To start, take a moment to reflect on the past year. Ask yourself:

What brought me a sense of fulfillment or connection?
When did I feel aligned with my values?
Are there areas where I’ve drifted from what matters most to me?

This exercise isn’t about judgment; it’s about noticing. From here, you can identify the values you’d like to prioritize in the coming year and consider how they might shape your mental health commitments.

Committing to New Actions

Once you’ve clarified your values, the next step is to create actionable commitments. In ACT, these are not rigid rules but flexible guides that help you move toward your values. Start small and specific. For example:

If you value connection, you might commit to calling a loved one weekly or joining a community group.
If you value growth, you might explore therapy, start journaling, or learn a new skill.
If you value self-care, you might schedule regular breaks or practice mindfulness for five minutes a day.

Remember, commitments are not about perfection. They’re about showing up, even when it’s hard. You might stumble—and that’s okay. Each moment offers a chance to recommit.

Practicing Acceptance and Mindfulness

A cornerstone of ACT is acceptance—the willingness to experience difficult emotions, thoughts, and sensations without struggling against them. The New Year can bring excitement but also anxiety or doubt. Practicing acceptance doesn’t mean resigning yourself to suffering; it means making space for these experiences while still moving toward your values.

Mindfulness can support this process. By staying present, you can notice when your mind wanders to self-criticism or unhelpful comparisons. Gently bring your focus back to the present and remind yourself of your values. Over time, this practice can help you build greater psychological flexibility and resilience.

Embracing the Journey

The beauty of a values-driven approach is that it transforms the New Year from a deadline for achievement into a journey of ongoing growth. It’s not about becoming someone new but about becoming more authentically you. Each step, no matter how small, is a victory when it aligns with your values.

As you step into the New Year, consider letting go of rigid resolutions and instead embrace commitments that reflect your true self. Be kind to yourself as you navigate this process. Life will continue to have its ups and downs, but by staying anchored in your values, you can create a sense of purpose and fulfillment that carries you through—not just this year, but for many years to come.